Are you going to spoil your child?

Subject: Re: Are you going to spoil your child? Tue Dec 13, 2011 8:47 am

I think iv learnt from other people not to tbh - i know people who have to bribe there children to clean there room with new toys and to me thats just not on =/ or they have to get a new toy everytime they go out.

My parents have only just started to enjoy money so when i was growing up i was never really spoilt, only at christmas and birthdays, but i learnt the value of treats then, if my parents one day let me have a toy it was brilliant! it wasnt something i expected all the time x x x

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Subject: Re: Are you going to spoil your child? Sun Mar 11, 2012 11:09 am

happy medium for my children but defo rewards for good behaviour not any for bad xxx

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Subject: Re: Are you going to spoil your child? Sun Mar 11, 2012 7:23 pm

I'd not say Jordan is spoilt I can take him shopping with me and he would not ask for a toy or cry for one when we pass toy's i tend to go all out at christmas and not so much inbetween I get him what he needs colouring books he gets rewards [i]when i do get jordan stuff hes never with me when i do so he dont get used to me getting him stuff while hes there so then he dose not ask for it + Ill be doing the same with Rio-Blake too xx[/i]

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Subject: Re: Are you going to spoil your child? Sun Mar 11, 2012 8:23 pm

I've never spoilt my daughter.
I don't see the point.
I see loads of mum's on FB who over buy on toys & clothes. I wouldn't say it does "harm" ; each to their own and all that.. but at 3 years old a child does not need 16 pairs of the same shoes in different shades to match outfits

For her 3rd birthday Eva got a bike, that's it. Her family buy her quite a bit so i knew she'd end up with loads.

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Subject: Re: Are you going to spoil your child? Sun Mar 11, 2012 9:07 pm

I dont think i could spoil my kids. Both me & OH were raised with what we needed, odd treat here and there but never overboard. I want to raise my kids to value and respect things like money:)

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Subject: Re: Are you going to spoil your child? Wed Apr 11, 2012 3:37 pm

i will not spoil my child.as i was never spoilt!!!!but I am puttin away money each week since he was bron so he could ave a car once he turns 17!!!!as I am big in to cars and chances are andrew will be too xx

Subject: Re: Are you going to spoil your child? Thu Apr 12, 2012 12:41 am

i spoil my girl but she never asks for it but i dont do it the whole time i buy her what she needs but the minute she starts saying i want she wont get.... i wil not spoil my daughter to the point where she doesnt be grateful she has loads of clothes and shoes and loads of minnie mouse teddys and dvds but thats all collected from her birthday and xmas

i learn her to be grateful xxx

Subject: Re: Are you going to spoil your child? Thu Apr 12, 2012 8:02 am

Ciaran deffo gets spoilt. BUT... hes not old enough to know he is being bought things. when he starts understanding hes getting new things then i will limit it and he will REALLY work for it. i grew up always getting what i want, but i ha to wait for it, which in turn hasnt made me a spoilt bitch? .. i learnt to appreaciate that my momi culdnt always afford what i wanted when i wanted. therefor i apreaciated everything i had .. i want ciaran to learn this too

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